"Just Clean My Teeth”: Navigating Pushback With Confidence and Care
You know the moment: You begin a conversation with a patient about their current oral health needs, rooted in their history, habits, and risk factors, and just as you start to make specific recommendations, you hear: “Can you just clean my teeth?” “I don’t want you to do the probing today.” “You don’t need to go into all that… I’m fine.” The wall goes up. The energy shifts. And suddenly, what should be a meaningful and motivating discussion becomes a very delicate interaction. But here’s the good news: These moments don’t need to stop you in your tracks or prevent you from delivering best-practice care. With a pause, a breath, and a coaching mindset, you can approach these situations with curiosity instead of pressure, and continue the conversation with confidence and compassion. Below are three simple strategies , paired with easy actions you can start using immediately. 1. Lead With Curiosity, Not Correction When patients push back, whether about information, charting, or treatm...